Let’s get it straight, Oral sex is real sex. This is because it can be as pleasurable
if not more than penetrative sex. Oral sex entails using the mouth, lips, or
tongue to stimulate your partner’s genitals or anus. Note that vulvas and
penises come in different shapes and sizes so do not worry or compare to
someone else. Both a man and a woman can receive and give oral sex.
However, oral sex can put you to risk of many sexually transmitted diseases if
you get involved with several partners. It is advisable to stick to your marriage
partner.

Avoid oral sex if you or your partner has sores around the mouth, genitals, or
anus, or cuts, bleeding, or infection in your throat or mouth. If you must do it,
make sure both parties get tested first. Oral sex is sometimes called a “blow
job”, giving head”, or “going down”. Like all sex, different people enjoy
different things. But it is important to talk to your partner about it first to know
if they are comfortable with it. If both partners are comfortable, oral sex can
be a great way to get physically closer and learn what turns each other on.
Oral sex can be used as foreplay to arouse both partners before the exact
sexual activity like vaginal or anal intercourse. Note that oral sex can be
practiced by people of any sexual orientation. Also, oral sex can be practiced to
preserve virginity for instance among heterosexual pairings (technical
virginity). This includes acts like masturbation, anal sex, and other non-
penetrative sex acts, except penile-vaginal sex. However, oral sex involving
fingering results in virginity loss.

Before performing any oral sex, take a shower, or wash the genital area well.
Avoid perfumes or deodorants because they are not genital-friendly. And if you
are healthy and on top of hygiene, you should taste fine. Foods that can help
sweeten your sauce include pineapple, papaya, cinnamon, celery, and nutmeg
among others. Plain Greek yogurt is also good.

Oral sex for a man
A man doesn’t need to be erect for oral sex to begin. First, you can arouse him
using your hand. You can also control how deep the penis can go inside your
mouth. Try various tongue, head, and mouth movements to know what suits
him. Do not use the teeth unless asked by him. Use the tip of the tongue up
and down the base of their shaft and circle it around their head. Because a
man’s penis is sensitive, be slow and gentle at first and increase the pace if
need be and if your partner is comfortable. It is upon you two to decide if you
want him to ejaculate or cum) in your mouth or not unless he is wearing a
condom. For a man, they can lie down, and this is the most comfortable BJ
position. While on their back you can be on their side and use their torso as a
pillow and then use your mouth and hands. They can sit while you bend facing
them or squat or kneel and suck. You can lie on the bed, with your head on the
edge, then let your man stand, and open wide their legs while facing you. The
penis will then be in your mouth.

Oral sex for a woman
Before getting into real oral sex for a woman, it is better to first kiss her and
touch her thighs and around the vagina to get her aroused. The genital area is
a sensitive part for women, but the clitoris is mostly the most sensitive part for
most women. Gently, first part the outer lips (labia) and look at the vagina
opening and the hooded clitoris above it. Using your finger, push the hood of
the clitoris up to expose the clitoris well. Gently using your tongue kiss or lick
the clitoris slowly. Start softly and slowly as the clitoris is very sensitive. You
can experiment with moving your tongue in various ways and try to find
different rhythms to know which one gives your partner maximum pleasure.

Oral sex positions
Any penetrative sex position can be good for oral sex. However, we advise the
following three positions:

i. Almost 69 – your partner faces your main attraction while you do the
same in a 69 action.

ii. Lie back – let your partner lie down and place a pillow on the butt to
lift it up. The legs should then be apart while you lie or kneel.

iii. Control freak – lie on your back and have your partner straddle your
face while facing you so they are in control of the moves and
pressure. It is easy to see your partner’s expressions for maximum
pleasure.

General Tips
1. Ask your partner before anything if they are comfortable and what
makes them feel good. Know what turns them on. Do not be afraid to
ask if what you are doing feels good.
2. Use your breath because breath feels amazing to the skin. It can tease
them well.
3. It is good to moan and groan. This helps your partner to know how much
you are enjoying.
4. Eye contact is as sexy AF. It is good to look into their eyes while down
on them, it is a good way to gauge your partner’s feelings to know what
is working and what is not.
5. Use your hands to spread the labia and reach the clitoris so that you can
work on its maximum pleasure. Also, the hands can help explore other
areas that help reach the orgasmic level like the nipples.

Finally, Oral sex can be fun for both parties once you get into it. Don’t be afraid to be messy. Have fun!!!

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